^^~~*****"THE NAME GAME"******~~^^

THIS CAN BE THE MOST UNUSUAL THING I CAN WRITE ABOUT..THOUGH NOT LESS FUNNIER TOO..(TO SOME IT MAY NOT AS IT DEPENDS ON OWN DIFFERNT IQs)WHENEVER I SIT BACK ON A RIDE BY A CAR OR A BIKE,MOST OF THE TIME I GET EQUIPPED BY WATCHING THE SURROUNDINGS I PASS BY AND THEY GENERALLY INCLUDE READING THE SIGNBOARDS AND NAMEPLATES WHICH IN ITS OWN WAY HAS A UNIQUE PLEASURE.IT GIVES ONE A PEEP IN TO THE SYCHE OF THE PERSON WHO CAME OUT WITH THE IMAGINATIVE NAMES.I GOT IN TO THE HABIT OF MEMORISING SIGNBOARDS AND NAMEPLATES AND I AM THRILLED TO COME ACROSS UNUSUAL WORD PLAYS.I OFTEN WONDER ABOUT THE CREATIVE SOULS WHO DO HELL LOT OF MIND WORK JUST TO ATTRACT ATTENTION DIFFERENTLY,NEVER HAVING GOT THE RIGHT BREAK THOUGH...AMONG THE VERY FIRST BOARDS THAT CAUGHT MY ATTENTION WAS A BARBER SHOP IN BANGALORE .THE OWNER NAMED IT 'KESH KARTANALAYA' JUST TRANSFORMING A SIMPLE SHOP IN TO AN ARTISTIC NAME N SHOW THEIR WAY OF WORK DIFFERENT FROM MERE MUNDANE ACTIVITY.MIND READING AND USING THE SAME AS WEAPON FOR HEAVY BUSINESS IS GETTING COMMON.EVEN THE PETROL PUMPS ARE ADOPTING JET-AGES TITLE LIKE 'AUTOPORT'.I COMPLETELY BELEIVE THAT ONE NEEDS TO ACKNOWLEDGE THE TALENT FOR CHOOSING OUTSTANDING NAMES THAT IS AVAILABLE IN ABUNDANCE.EVERYBODY IS IN THE WAY TO SUPERCEDE OTHERS BY DOING THESE LITTLE THINGS OF GREATER IMPACT.ON MY WAY IN DELHI STREETS NEARBY JANPATH I I WAS DAMN IMPRESSED BY ONE OF THE TINIEST SHOPS IN AN OBSCURE CORNER CALLING ITSELF 'UNIVERSAL TRADING COMPANY'!!GLAD TO KNOW THAT THERE IS NO SHORTAGE OF PROUD OWNERS OF VARIETY OF BUSINESSES IRRESPECTIVE OF THEIR SIZE OF EMPIRE.EVEN GODS ARE PROPITIATED.ON MY TRIP TO SHIRDI IT WAS NO WONDER THAT SAIBABA IS AMONG THE MOST POPULAR DIETIES WHERE COMMERCE IS CONCERNED,AS SAME TO GOD BALAJI...PERHAPS HOPING FOR ATONEMENT FOR THEIR DEFAMED AND NON PROFITABLE BUSINESS.

ITS ALL BECOME COMMON NOW..BUT WHAT TOOK MY BREATH AWAY WAS THE "***JAI HANUMAN FERTILITY CLINIC"***.

DECRIMINALISATION OF HOMOSEXUALITY -: A GIANT STEP AHEAD

Now,2nd july will be the most remarkable and a kind of historical day which revolutsnised the indian culture.now a person is set free to be open to his homosexualitic nature,which is now legal and is completely discriminalised.its a victory for all homosexuals who were always looked down and treated negatively.but after this heavy decision they can walk with their heads high.

But as per the running picture today,definately it does not demonstrate a final end to victimization of homosexuals anymore.we definately talk about equality but when it comes to serious implementation,we step back.After declaration so far,there are still so many religious group who finds homosexuality against culture.They find it unnatural,unwanted and again as a criminal act and say that it would lead a spurt in HIV/AIDS - which is niether scientific nor logical.But i urge those groups and people to stop governing other's personal lives that includes matter of personal choice.

I read few lines in the newspaper that if it was all about what people do in their bedrooms,half the straight couples would be criminals-which i say is a complete truth.

But the battle has begun and on this verge it feels devastated that due to few of us,the homosexuals cant seek redressal as normal citizens completely.inspite few times back i too shared same awkward feelings against them but after i had talk to my grandparents who are too old to even accept it,was in no ugly state of hard feelings for them.they told me that we need to help them to live a normal life like us.There is big time need to stop the extortion,blackmail and violence against homosexuals.we live in a democratic country and must possess the positive outlook instead of utter backwardness.

dont know why ??????

TOO OFTEN WE UNDERESTIMATE THE POWER OF A TOUCH.....,A SMILE....,A KIND WORD..,A LISTENING EAR.....,AN HONEST COMPLIMENT OR THE SMALLEST ACT OF CARING.............-aLL OF WHICH HAVE THE POTENTIAL TO TURNA A LIFE AROUND.

the only truth

THE THREE MOST DIFFICULT THINGS TO SAY-:

1.I LOVE YOU.........

2.HELP ME.......

3.I AM SORRY...........FOR THESE THREE STATEMENTS EXPOSE YOUR

DEEPEST VULNERABILITIES..............................

IS THERE A MUSLIM MINDSET?????.....

{GETTING ASHAMED OF INDIAN SECULARISM}

WELL I MAY BE TOO YOUNG TO JUSTIFY OR UNDERSTAND THIS COMPLICATED TOPIC..OR A VERY COMMON TOPIC WHICH HAS ALWAYS BEEN DEBATED UPON AND URGED ME TO VOICE MY OPINION ON IT AS WELL.TERROR IS A BIG HARRASING POWER GENERALLY USED BY MANY ORGANIZED GROUP AS A MENTAL PHYSICAL AND POLITICAL WEAPON.OFTEN WE READ ARTICLES AND REPORTS WHICH GIVES BIASED IMPRESSION ABOUT THE MUSLIM COMMUNITY IN INDIA IN CONTEXT OF TERRORISM AND ALL OTHER ANTI-SOCIAL STATEMENTS FOR MERE TRPs AND COPIES FOR SALE. - MANY MEMBERS OF THE MAJORITY COMMUNITY CONSIDER MUSLIM AS 'THE OTHER' BUT THAT IS ONLY A PART OF THE TRUTH.THE WHOLE TRUTH IS THAT BOTH COMMUNITIES CONSIDER EACH OTHER AS 'THE OTHER'.ITS LIKE THE "MUTUAL FEELING OF OTHERNESS BETWEEN THE TWO COMMUNITIES".THINGS GET EASILY POTRAYED ENOUGH WITH ALL FAKE EXAMPLES AND BLA..BLAs..JUST TO CREATE AN IMAGE THAT MUSLIMS HERE ARE LIVING UNDER A CONSTANT SHADOW OF THREAT AND SUSPICION WHICH IS ABSOLUTELY INCORRECT.HOW CAN ONE SINGLE OUT ANY ONE COMMUNITY?HOW DO YOU THINK HINDUS FEEL WHEN THEY LIVE IN MUSLIM MAJORITY AREAS?DONT THEY LIVE WITH SOME CONSTANT FEAR AND INSECURITY?THEY DO.IN FACT,MUSLIMS LIVING IN HINDU MAJORITY AREAS FEEL MORE SECURED AS COMPARED TO THEIR HINDU CONTERPARTS.

HOW MANY RESPECTED HINDUS CAN BUY A HOUSE IN MUSLIM HOUSING SOCIETIES???AND HOW MANY FEEL TO?ITS COMPLETELY A SHAME FOR INDIAN SECULARISM.BUT YES,AFTER A TERROR ATTACKS MANY ARE INTERROGATED,TRIED AND CONVICTED,NOT BECAUSE THEY ARE MUSLIMS BUT BECAUSE THEY ARE TERRORISTS AND UNFORTUNATELY MOST OF THEM ARE MUSLIMS.

THE HINDU MAJORITY IN INDIA HAS ALWAYS WELCOMED PEOPLE OF ALL CAST CREED AND RELIGION BUT YET AGAIN MUSLIM COMMUNITY DIVIDE THEMSELVES AND MAKE A SEPARATE HOME,SEPARATE LAWS ETC AND ON TOP OF ALL THIS THERE ARE STILL FEW MUSLIMS LEADERS ND INTELLECTUALS WHO CREATE AN IMPRESSION OF BEING VICTIMIZED.

MUSLIMS OWN PROPERTIES IN PLACES LIKE AYODHYA,VARANASI AND MATHURA THOUGH A NON-MUSLIM IS NOT ALLOWED TO ENTER,LEAVE ASIDE RESIDE,IN MECCA AND MADINA.ITS A HIDDEN FACT THAT INEQUALITY IS ENHANCED DUE TO THE RESERVATIONS ENJOYED BY THEM.IF MY THIS STATEMENT GOES WRONG,THEN VERY WILLINGLY THEY MUST DECLARE THAT THEY NO LONGER NEED MINORITY BENEFITS.AGAIN WHY PROVIDING THOSE HAJ SUBSIDIES..ITS HIGH TIME WHEN MUSLIMS DO SOME SOUL SEARCHING...

THE WAY FORWARD IS FOR THE MUSLIM MINDSET TO CHANGE AND GET MINGLE AS EASILY THEY COULD.

TOP 15 THINGS CLIent say in advertising

15. MAKE THE LOGO BIGGGER

14. MAKE THE AD SMALLER

13. THE BRIEF HAS CHANGED

12. YOU CAN USE MY SON AS MODEL.

11. SHOW ME OPTIONS

10. MORE OPTIONS

9. TOO EVOLVED

8. TOO MASS

7. NO MONEY TO SHOOT(JUST AS IN THIS ADD)

6. THIS FONT IS NOT READABLE

5. I AM THE CLIENT

4. I LIKE THE IDEA BUT.....

3. WHAT'S THE IDEA????

2. NOW

1. BUT

SHEER AVERSION TO MARRIAGE COMES FROM PURE RATIONALE

Till now this might be the most unconvincing title therof but yes as it says it comes from pure rationale.this as i see is the most common topic Out of the 13 group discussions i had faced and yes i am now a little knowledged enough to write and speak too.i always noticed people interestingly speaking on this subject rather than any else subject given to them which made me again to rethink and write on it.well marriage is a long journey from desire to destination.desire is what when we think of getting in to it and destination is what when we get it...which i think is often sour as opined by few of my married friends and relatives.Is it only for a social bondage or obligation between a man and a woman for mere continuation of a generation,then i say why not living alone and adopting a child.it can also serve the same.and specially for the womens who are independent enough and find it easier than having the same harsh dominating life on them..

why marriage is considered to be a sacrosanct affair??the recent trends of divorces bears testinomy to the fact that marriages are failing very faster in india also thus giving good competition to western countries in this field beside competing in various other needed fields.Getting in to insitution like marriage is a very responsible matter,because if you are spoiled,your relation is spoiled,where will the childern go,wht will be their future...thus ruining so many lifes all together.Definately at the earliest part various kinds of promises are made but then it hardly gets implemented on latter part.ofcourse then you pay lip services to atonement by merely mouthing words,without actually meaning them.The sense for outrage develops. taking each other for granted becomes a common phenomenol which is the most ugliest part in any relation.sacrifices start to begin as compromoises,expectations dosent meets anywhere.your idealogies changes...the biggest pain is when love care and understanding takes a back seat and vanishes out from the window.Even you feel no softer and the same for each other's family too..ultimately being the worst part here.The outcome is not as fruitfull one thinks of before..thus resulting in........you know what.....

In nineties the situations wasnt so worse as compared to the present conditions are..because time has now become more demanding. so there must be serious analyzation before,rather repenting on it afterwards.we hardly get one life to live for and that should be utilized at its best and make an example for others as well.yes there are exceptions already existing in our own society,..and i really hats off to them because being commited,commited and always commited is a big job..and they owe it.. they bring out the true meaning from life..and are of high matured level which this generation can hardly touch.i have never been in all this business from very nearby but definately try to be the luckiest one to be different and yes be the same good exception without being a commitment phobic and running in the same rat race..