SHEER AVERSION TO MARRIAGE COMES FROM PURE RATIONALE

Till now this might be the most unconvincing title therof but yes as it says it comes from pure rationale.this as i see is the most common topic Out of the 13 group discussions i had faced and yes i am now a little knowledged enough to write and speak too.i always noticed people interestingly speaking on this subject rather than any else subject given to them which made me again to rethink and write on it.well marriage is a long journey from desire to destination.desire is what when we think of getting in to it and destination is what when we get it...which i think is often sour as opined by few of my married friends and relatives.Is it only for a social bondage or obligation between a man and a woman for mere continuation of a generation,then i say why not living alone and adopting a child.it can also serve the same.and specially for the womens who are independent enough and find it easier than having the same harsh dominating life on them..

why marriage is considered to be a sacrosanct affair??the recent trends of divorces bears testinomy to the fact that marriages are failing very faster in india also thus giving good competition to western countries in this field beside competing in various other needed fields.Getting in to insitution like marriage is a very responsible matter,because if you are spoiled,your relation is spoiled,where will the childern go,wht will be their future...thus ruining so many lifes all together.Definately at the earliest part various kinds of promises are made but then it hardly gets implemented on latter part.ofcourse then you pay lip services to atonement by merely mouthing words,without actually meaning them.The sense for outrage develops. taking each other for granted becomes a common phenomenol which is the most ugliest part in any relation.sacrifices start to begin as compromoises,expectations dosent meets anywhere.your idealogies changes...the biggest pain is when love care and understanding takes a back seat and vanishes out from the window.Even you feel no softer and the same for each other's family too..ultimately being the worst part here.The outcome is not as fruitfull one thinks of before..thus resulting in........you know what.....

In nineties the situations wasnt so worse as compared to the present conditions are..because time has now become more demanding. so there must be serious analyzation before,rather repenting on it afterwards.we hardly get one life to live for and that should be utilized at its best and make an example for others as well.yes there are exceptions already existing in our own society,..and i really hats off to them because being commited,commited and always commited is a big job..and they owe it.. they bring out the true meaning from life..and are of high matured level which this generation can hardly touch.i have never been in all this business from very nearby but definately try to be the luckiest one to be different and yes be the same good exception without being a commitment phobic and running in the same rat race..